Author: Eric Deeter

Mindset for setting goals and achieving them

Andrew Gardner is a scholar of mental performance. He is a clinical psychologist and his area of expertise and interest is thinking skills, he evaluates people’s cognition as a clinical neuropsychologist. His particular area of research is helping athletes who are suffering from or at risk of concussion from playing “collision sports.” He has worked with many elite athletes and at the community and grassroots level in injury prevention, injury assessment and a research program that consists of analyzing retired players and the possible long term consequences of a career in contact and collision sports. 

This year he will be running one of the toughest trail marathons in Australia, 45 kilometers in the Blue Mountains in Sydney. He plans to be competitive, but he will keep in mind that his race at the Boston Marathon comes shortly after this, and that is his A-race for this year.

He says that as a lot of people know, running is huge for mental health. It’s yourself being active that creates the endorphins kicking inside the brain. The reward system from these endorphins can be a huge boost to help keep people from falling into depression.

Andrew was always involved in running, but he never took it that seriously. When he was forced to be working from home, he began to take it more seriously, making time to go run. He joined a local running club  and it was actually when he started working from home and had a little bit more time to be able to get out and run, and he joined a local running club. The club gave him structure and a systematic training schedule.

The head coach and founder is an elite level runner who won the Tarawara ultramarathon in New Zealand. He broke the course record by 45 minutes. He also had qualified for the Olympics for the marathon to represent Australia. The club is structured like the school system, in 10-week terms. They focus on different training objectives within each term: strength, hills, speed.  Andrew is the mental performance coach for the club.

One of the things he coaches the members on is self-image. What you believe to be true, your mind will deliver to you. If you believe you are a slow runner and that you can’t run as fast as the other runners in the race, you won’t perform well. He teaches strategies for how to grow self-image and how to keep self-image from shrinking.

He also teaches about goals and structures. It’s not enough to have a single goal, like running a sub-3hr marathon. You also have to have goals for the training blocks you need to get you to your main goal. And you have to put structures in place to support these goals. He calls these “process goals.” They support the “outcome goal” or the main goal you set. He points out that the process goals you have control over. The outcome goal is less certain because there are other factors that can impact that outcome. Ultramarathon runners are familiar with these unexpected challenges on race day!

In the club they also work a lot on motivation and key strategies to stay motivated. Andrew says that one of the most important things he learned is that life is really a game of strategy. It’s not about talent. If you have the right strategy, you can achieve anything you want. They talk about the fear of failure, and the strategies for not worrying about what people think of you. They focus on learning from the outcome.

Andrew says it’s important to learn how to get rid of bad thoughts, get back to the present moment and move forward. He teaches mental imagery to help accomplish this state.He says that, if you can make these images, the brain can’t distinguish between what’s real and what’s imagination. 

If someone is having difficulty creating those mental images, he recommends looking in your memory bank to a time when you executed really well. Go back there and rehearse what happened and imagine yourself doing it again and getting stronger. Once you experience the feelings, sights, smells, and experiences of that moment, shift your image in your imagination into your future and see your success.

Andrew ran in the UTA Australia, a 100K trail race, but unfortunately his leg slipped to the side and he almost fell. He tweaked a muscle and nursed it for a few more kilometers before deciding to drop. He woke up the next day feeling fine. So two weeks later he went with some friends and ran a 100K course to finish what he had started.

He says that we can’t regret what happened, that the way to process it should be to learn from the lessons. In that race he could have done himself a lot of damage if he followed the 45 k that was left. For him before going into a race you have to ask yourself what could potentially happen and know if you have a strategy to get there. That’s what they talk about in his club. They plan all the possible scenarios that could happen and what would be the decisions they would make as a result. For example Andrew says that  if he gets injured in the Boston Marathon he’s going to finish that race no matter what. That is his main goal race for the year and he will finish.

The Boston Marathon has a charity and the fundraiser Andrew has chosen goes to the Spaulding Rehabilitation Hospital which is based in Charlestown, right in the heart of the city of Boston.

Andrew loves trials, he loves exploring new things. When he began running, he ran parkruns on the weekends and ran a few miles as fast as he could a few days a week. Most of Andrew’s runs now are long and slow, and then he has a couple of interval sessions. He prefers to make sure of distance and endurance over speed.

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Connect with Andrew:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_ultra_mentality/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/runlabhq/

Boston Marathon charity: Spaulding Rehabilitation Hospital

Andrew Gardner’s bio: https://www.newcastle.edu.au/profile/andrew-gardner

Speaker Notes

Probably heard quote: As a man thinketh, so is he.

From Bible – Prov. 23:7

Usually misquoted . . . like I just did.

When this Bible verse is misquoted, it leads people to conclusions and beliefs that have the feel of sound wisdom, but are, in truth, weak and ineffective. 

As a man thinketh, so is he.

Motivational speakers say it. Self-help gurus say it. Mindset coaches say it.

The common theme – your intellect . . . your thoughts regulate who you are and what kind of life you have.

This idea is not false. 

But it isn’t totally true.

It is a misquote of a true statement that is in the Bible.

Before I get to the actual quote that is Prov. 23:7 I want to talk about the common use of this statement: As a man thinketh, so is he.

We think that who we are is what we think. (sounds confusing)

Clearer – The thoughts we think make us who we are.

I blame Rene Descartes for this.

Philosopher looking for truth beyond shadow of doubt.

He came up with: I think, therefore, I am.

Descartes and his cronies changed the world. College – Western Civ. – influence thru history up to now.

One result – the idea that your intellect and ability to think is what makes you who you are. I think, therefore I am. Turns into My thoughts (my intellect) determine who I am.

Education system: Teach you how to think. (Teach what to think.)

Smartest people are rewarded. Average or below – future is not so bright.

Change your life? – change your thoughts.

Books: Think and Grow Rich. Power of Positive Thinking. & scads more

Motivational speakers. Self-help gurus. Mindset coaches. 

Change your thoughts – change your life.

Idea is not false.

But not completely true.

Eric, you’re a mindset coach! What are you saying? That what you think doesn’t matter??

Answer: what Prov. 27:3 really says.

As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he.

There is a difference between thinking in your head and thinking in your heart.

The Hebrew word is better translated as soul rather than heart.

Who you are doesn’t come from your intellect (conscious thoughts).

Who you are comes from your soul . . . your conscious thoughts are only one third of your soul.

Your emotions and your will (drive, determination) make up the rest of your soul.

Soul = mind

Focus on conscious thoughts to change your life – you’re outnumbered.

Unless your emotions and will (subconscious) are on board, you are stuck.

Positive affirmations, gratitude journals, writing goals, are like trying to steer a yacht by holding an oar in the water.

If you want to transform your life, your soul must be aligned with your goals. What you think in your heart and soul – that is who you are.

Good news – Those thoughts are not set in stone. You choose the thoughts you think in your heart.

But you will never change your life if you only rely on the thoughts in your head.

As a mindset coach, I help my clients do this and become the person they want to be. 

If I can help you, message me here.

Setting a goal and the mindset to reach it

Jacob Deeter has always been active. He was involved in sports during high school and enjoys being outdoors. In the past few years, as he finished up his schooling to become a physical therapist, he started hiking and backpacking.

During the winter break of 2020, just before Christmas, he and his fiance set out on a 6-day backpacking trip in the Great Smoky Mountains National Park. They ended up hiking 104 miles. They had to deal with freezing temperatures, 48 creek crossings, surviving with wet clothes and gear after falling in the creek, and hiking in frozen shoes for the remainder of the trip.

At the start of 2021, Jacob set a goal to hike and backpack 500 miles over the course of the year. His clinical rotation would take him to several cities across the country. He was able to hike and backpack in Redwood National Park, Iowa, Illinois, Kansas, California, Georgia, and Colorado.

During his time in Atlanta, he decided to hike the part of the Appalachian Trail that was in the state of Georgia. He planned his weekends to drive to the trail and hike out and back. He discovered there are private shuttle services available that will drop you off at one end of the trail and pick you up at the other. It’s like Uber or Lyft, but for hikers and backpackers. Jacob took advantage of a shuttle service for his last hike on his last section to finish his goal. 

One of the differences between the trails in the Eastern Appalachian Mountains and the Rocky Mountains is that there are no switchbacks. The Appalachian Trail goes straight up the hills and then straight back down. The trail is at a lower elevation, but the effort is harder because the climb is steeper.

Jacon says he probably carries 25 to 30 pounds in his backpack if he goes for a full week. He carries a hammock if backpacking alone. But he takes a tent when he and Andrea go together because they can split the weight between the two backpacks.

The hike that took him over his 500 mile goal was his rim to rim hike of the Grand Canyon with Andrea. They went in December, so the weather was perfect. Jacob didn’t think the route was as hard as some of the other places he backpacked during the year. On the drive out they also stopped and hiked at Arches National Park in Utah.

Jacob carries in his backpack an inflatable air mattress, an insulated bag of pillows, a cooking system with a stove and a pot and fuel, and a drip for filtered coffee, he always carries with him a water filter and after that the essentials. If it’s icy and snowy, he carries micro-tips or snowshoes. If it’s a longer trip, he can carry trekking poles. As he likes to take pictures he always carries his cell phone and always carries a battery pack with his phone that also helps with navigation and other things, but he also has a small mini tripod that he carries with him so he can set it up or take pictures at night. The food they eat is mostly things like freeze-dried food, tuna packets and things that can be put in a tortilla. They usually consume 3500 calories.

Looking for new ways to stay in shape and find challenges, Jacob decided to practice climbing. He found a climbing gym and would go work out there for two or three hours after his shift at the clinic. So far his climbing has been mostly on inside walls, but he would like to do more outdoor climbing in the future. 

This year he is hiking less since he is now working as a PT in one location. But he and Andrea have plans to take some weekends to find adventure out on the trails. He has a goal for both of them to hike the John Muir Trail sometime in the next three or four years. 

The strangest thing he ever saw out on the trail was finding the wreckage of a plane on the side of a mountain when he was in Georgia.

The phrase that defines his philosophy of life is ”it doesn’t matter how hard it is to take a step, because after you take it, it’s already behind you”.

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Connect with Jacob:

Instagram: @jacob.deeter

Speaker notes

Your mindset determines who you are and what kind of life you have.

If you feel stuck or trapped in a ho-hum life, it’s because of your mindset.

Mindset: The story you tell yourself . . . about yourself.

When you tell a story, the words matter.
You can use words that make you the hero of the story or you can use words that make you the victim.

Power word 1: Only

Only is a diminishing word. It minimizes whatever you apply it to and makes it appear and feel less significant or less important. 

Negative: I’m only ____________.

Only 23. Only HS grad. Only a______ (title/job/role).

You diminish your ability and your value to yourself and others.

Used as an excuse for why you can’t . . .  excuse for mediocrity.
I’m only ___________, so I can’t be awesome . . . a winner . . . successful.

Positive: It’s only ___________.

Make something feel easier – Only a short distance. Only a few minutes. Only a little thing to do.

Example: Run 100 miles. Mind is overwhelmed. Only have to run to next aid station (5 or 6 miles).

Power word 2: Yet

Possibility word

Negative effects of Yet
Turn the positive into a negative. 

Whatever is going on in my life that is good (or even just OK) won’t last.

Hasn’t happened yet . . . but you expect it to.

Had the flu yet. Lost my job. My car hasn’t quit running.  (Runners) Knees haven’t gone bad.

Often followed by KNOCK ON WOOD.
Why knock on wood? Folklore belief that spirits lived in trees. Knocking on wood distracts them from making what you said come upon you.

But how about this? Stop speaking curses over your life!

When you look into your future and expect the worst and speak it out loud, your mind is listening.
The words you say reflect your thoughts. Not only conscious, but unconscious. And your unconscious thoughts have the power to create your present reality and your future.

Positive effects of Yet
Turn around the negative. 

Not yet.
Whatever my situation is right now is going to change in the future.

You’re just not good at _____.

I don’t know how to___.

I can’t ____.

Use the word YET when someone tries to pull you down or put limiting beliefs on you.

Use the word YET to turn around your negative self talk.

Use the word YET to keep discouragement away when you’re learning something new.

Words make up the story that is your mindset.
Your mindset is the story you tell yourself about yourself.

Change the words you use and you change the story, and you change your mindset, and you change your life.

Bonus power word:

If vs. When

When you have a goal or project you’re working on, be careful to use when instead of if.

If I can get my business going, I can quit my soul-sucking job.

If I can lose weight, I’ll have clothes that fit better.

If my body heals, I’ll be able to run again.

Practice:

Your self-talk.

Conversation Jiu-Jitsu

Your self-talk:

Pay attention to the words coming out of your mouth and going on inside your head. Notice when you hit these power words and notice if you’re using them to help you or hurt you.

Conversational Ju-Jitsu:

People will say things to you and about you that can infect your mindset like a virus. Pay attention, and use these power words to reverse their negative words.

A mindset to keep moving forward

Dave lives in Charlotte, NC,  and has a small roofing company. When he started the company he did everything himself and it was very physically demanding work, then as the company grew he started doing more office work and became very sedentary and had bad eating habits. He gained weight and in the early 2020’s he realized that what he was doing was not really the life he wanted, so he started to change his eating patterns. He started exercising consistently and got in good shape. 

He decided to take a backpacking course with Chad Wright, a former Navy Seal and ultramarathon runner. He had always wanted to go backpacking, but didn’t know how to do it and it seemed like a good way to get into it. While there, he met several ultramarathon runners. He heard them talk about ultras, and he’d never heard of anyone running those distances. These ultra runners gave him pointers and helped him as they all hiked some tough mountain trails.

When he got back home, the idea of running took hold. He didn’t think he was ready for an ultramarathon, so he decided to do a marathon. The only race he had done was a 5K about ten years earlier. He couldn’t find a marathon to enter so decided to go out and run 26.2 miles on his own. 

He was going to do it at the track at the high school right outside his house, but they ended up closing it because of the covid. So he went to the park, down the road from his house, and they had some nice trails through the woods. He found a 1.1 mile loop and just ran it. It took him 9.5 hours to do that marathon, and he couldn’t walk for 2 days afterwards. He was exhausted, butt showed him what he could do.

He was very active on Instagram because and posted his story on Instagram. His running buddies gave him a ton of encouragement along the way, and one of them, once he finished, told him that if he could do that they needed another person to join their group on a hike through Atlanta. It was 40 miles up and down mountains. 

Dave drove to Atlanta and slept in a hotel for the night and met everyone in the morning at Stone Mountain at 4:30 am. He joined a group of about 37 people. The hike took about 15 hours. The camaraderie was great and Dave says that since you are walking for hours next to a lot of people you really take the time to get to know them. At some points they had to cheer each other on when they finally got to the last push up the mountain. The energy was high and Dave ended up again with the idea he could do even more.

A group met for lunch the next day, and one of the guys he met told him that he had signed up for an ultramarathon coming up in a few weeks. They invited him to join them if he was crazy enough. It was the 100 mile race called the Georgia Jewel. It had 14000 feet of elevation and they give you 36 hours to do. Dave did the calculations based on his 40 mile backpack hike and thought he could do that so he signed up.

His training for the ultra was a couple of 3 mile runs and some mountain biking. He had no experience in the world of ultras. He didn’t even know what an aid station was. He says it was a mess. He had no idea what he was doing. He remembers they started running at 4 o’clock on Friday at a moderate pace and after the first aid station he came to a long, steep climb on stone steps. He told his running buddy to go on ahead because he couldn’t keep pace on the steps. On the way back, he was so tired he was afraid he would fall off the steep steps going down. The course sweepers caught up to him and helped him to the next aid station. He wasn’t able to finish. But he did 72 miles and 10,000 feet of climbing. He says that he found his limit.

Dave says he’s stubborn and he doesn’t like to be defeated. He found his limit, but he wanted to see if he could change it because if he could change that he could change anything else in his life.

At that race he met a woman, and, as they were talking, he told her that he needed to find a 100 mile race that was flat and no elevation gain. He wanted to get the distance first and then work on getting the elevation. She told him about the Long Haul 100 in Tampa, and he completed his first 100 mile race there. He was helped by the camaraderie and encouragement of the trail running community there. He sprained his ankle at about mile 60 and had to do some walking, but he finished in just under 30 hours.

In January 2021 and in February he did the calendar challenge where you must run a mile by the date on the calendar. So on February 1 you run a mile, February second you run 2 miles and so on and so forth. He ended up running 411 miles in February. The last 4 days he was running a marathon every day, and he did it even though that last week was exhausting. But he chose something hard to do which made him feel amazing afterwards.

Tough Mudder and Ragnar

Dave says tough mudder races have always been on his list and he decided to run one to test himself. It was a fun event because it was an adventure, and one of his friends who lives in Atlanta ended up running and doing it with him. so they had a great time together. They did it in 6 or 7 hours hours.  

He and his friend did a Ragnar race the week after. It was a relay race, and they had 6 people on their team so they each only ran about 18 miles.

He decided he was doing well so looked at the 1.1 mile loop of the last-man-standing race called the Midstate Mile and decided to enter. He thought to himself, “How hard can it be?” But the course took its toll. You have to be at the starting line every 20 minutes. And Dave couldn’t keep the pace. He had enough strength to continue, but ran out of time. He missed the start and was counted DNF. But everyone who was out of the race stayed to support the runners left in the race. 

This year Dave will not be racing, he realized the lack of training he had when he first went to the last-man-standing race. He had plantar fasciitis last year right after that race and realized some rookie mistakes he was making. He had to take a break for a while, but ran the Tennessee mile at the same course in December, he did well but still has a lot of work to do before he can compete in the last-man-standing.

Dave is working to make distance goals this year, and they will be modest. His routine now is to do strength training a couple of times a week with running at a good heart rate the other 5 days. He says that strength training is developing stabilizer muscles he didn’t realize existed several years ago. He’s also working to adjust his diet to bring in the right amount of calories so he doesn’t become exhausted due to calorie deficit.

Bridge Questions:

One thing Dave should always have for running is a pair of socks.

The weirdest thing he’s seen when he’s been running is a possum that ran right under his feet and stopped.  

The phrase that sums up his philosophy of life is “I chose this.”

Where you are in life is the result of choices you made. And if you want to change your life, make different choices.

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Your questions shape your mindset

Tony Robbins: “The quality of your life is a direct reflection of the quality of the questions you are asking yourself”

If you want a better life, you need to ask better questions.

You may ask, “How do I tell the difference between a good question and a bad one?” 

First: Get away from the idea of good and bad. Instead – helpful vs. unhelpful.

What kind of questions do you need to ask to improve your life?

How can you use them?

These are examples of helpful questions.

First: How do questions influence the quality of your life?

Your mind is designed to answer questions. 

The instant you hear or think of a question, your mind jumps to attention like a dog hearing a food wrapper. 

Sales people know this: “Quick question . . .”

So, the quality of questions you ask will set your mind to work to find an answer. 

10 words starting sentences for questions

Who

What

Why

Where

When

How

If

Is

Can / may

Will

Today talk about 4 – two helpful & two unhelpful

Unhelpful: Why & When

Why did this happen?

Why don’t they treat me better?

Why can’t I lose weight?

Why do I feel like people are judging me?

Why did I: Buy this POS car? Take this job? Get in this relationship? Agree to help my friends move?

Why questions are the most unhelpful questions you can ever ask.

1. Often the answer is out of reach . . . unknowable. 
2. Knowing the answer doesn’t matter.
3. Answer reinforces your failure

When questions put you in a dependent position. You’re waiting for something to happen.

When will life get back to normal?

When will my boss decide to give me a raise?

When will my parents ever realize I’m an adult now?

“When” is focused on the future.

“When” questions mean that you’re hoping or expecting something to happen that is out of your control.

Hope is not a strategy. 

If you’re asking questions that begin with when, you are in a passive position waiting for other people, the government, or fate to do something to make your life better.

Why and when are unhelpful questions when you’re looking for an epic life.

Two powerful questions,  if you know how to use them. 

What & How.

I said at beginning:

What kind of questions will improve the quality of my life?

How do I use them?

What and how questions set your mind on a course to find solutions. 

And the better you craft your questions, the better solutions you’ll find.

Practice refining your questions to make them better.

What questions

What kind of questions will improve my life?

What do I need to do to improve the quality of my questions?

What do I want for my life and what questions will I need to ask to get there?

What do I need to do next?

How questions

How can I use questions to improve my life?

How can I find ways to apply questions to make my life better?

How can I set up a system to help me pay attention to the quality of my questions and learn how to ask better questions?

The quality of your life comes from the quality of the questions you ask. 

How do you ask better questions?

Pay attention to whether the questions you’re asking are helpful or unhelpful. 

Assignment: Pay attention to your questions. Practice asking better ones.

Start with this one: What can I do to remind myself to ask better questions?

Determination to not quit

Pam Chapman-Markle says she made fitness a priority after beating cancer at a young age and having kids. She had gained some weight, but kept active doing aerobics and teaching aerobics. She started running in her 40s because she was going through pre-menopause and her bone density started to decrease. She had the beginning stages of osteoporosis. Her doctor told her she needed more calcium in her bones and told her to start running. He said the load that running puts on the bones would cause them to grab and store the calcium as long as she kept a healthy diet. Running reversed the osteoporosis.  

Pam raised her 3 daughters on her own. She was divorced when her youngest was 6 months old. She worked as a nurse in anesthesia. She ran to maintain her health, but she didn’t like running. She ran about 20 miles a week. After her daughters went off to college, Pam had empty nest syndrome and felt depressed. 

The movie The Bucket List gave her the idea to look for adventure, so she had the great idea to learn to surf when she was 54 years old. One of the surgeons she talked to said she needed to do a marathon, and Pam told him she didn’t like running with people. He said, “No, an ultramarathon: 50 miles.” She decided to run a 50 mile ultramarathon and cross it off her bucket list. He suggested the Rocky Racoon. She was still running only on streets and only 20 or 30 miles a week. The 50 mile race was full when she went to register, so she entered the 100. She finished, but she injured herself. She couldn’t run for 4 months.

Rather than checking ultramarathons off her bucket list, she decided she wanted to learn more about what her body was capable of doing and how to get better at running long distances. She trained for and entered the Keys 100 in Florida the following year. She likes running in the heat, and improved her overall time by more than three hours. She was dating a man (now her husband) who crewed her for the race. He told her, after she finished, that she had a talent for running. Her pace was steady for the entire 100 miles. He told her she should try another. He looked at the age group stats and said that with training she could be competitive.

She entered the Brazil 135, a trail race along the Caminho da Fe’, or Path of Faith, a pilgrimage route. The race was limited to only 50 entrants. She and her husband arrived and found the other entrants had support teams in multiple cars and pacers. Neither she nor her husband spoke Portuguese, and they saw the looks of doubt in the eyes of the other teams. Not only did she finish the race, she did it in under 48 hours.

That race led her to running the Badwater 135. She did well in this race as well, and has run it four times and is going back again this year to take back her course record for the over 60 female. 

She went back to the Brazil 135 again this year, but the race was over a different and more difficult route. The race directors tried to keep runners from going through the small villages because of the fear of Covid. This time, she had a pacer, and her husband knew what to expect for crewing her. But she still believes she can do better and will probably return to run the route again.

Pam was on the end of recovering from a serious injury when she ran the Brazil 135 this year. She had a stress fracture on her femur and recovery took a full year. Three surgeons told her that she would have to get surgery and that her running days were over. She wasn’t satisfied with that answer and kept looking for other options. She found a stem cell therapy treatment that offered a solution. She had to travel to Chicago for the treatments, and they worked. She had to stop running, so walking and cycling were how she kept in shape. The healing took time, but she is back to running as she proved by her second Brazil 135.

The mindset she has for pressing through ultramarathons and health challenges also helps her body heal. Pam says that she got away from everyone who was negative in her life, surgeons she worked with who told her things she didn’t want to hear anymore, friends who had nothing nice to say when they went to dinner and so on. She started doing a lot of meditation, imagining herself running again and even when her body wasn’t ready she did it and her body remembered and it is coming back. 

She has a full schedule of races planned for this year. With her mindset and grit, she will do well.

The word that defines Pam’s life philosophy is Gratitude, which for her is a very powerful thing.

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Your mindset is shown in the words you speak

I’m going to do a magic trick. Here’s my hat & nothing inside.

Abra Kadabra!

Did you see that? 

Of course not! This is a podcast. But if you could see me, still see nothing.

There was something missing . . . I’ll tell you what in a minute.

What went wrong with my magic trick?

I had the hat.

Said the magic words.

But no rabbit. 

Besides the fact I’m not a magician, I only said I was going to show you a magic trick. I never said I was going to pull a rabbit out of my hat.

Abra Kadabra won’t work if you don’t specify what you want.

Hebrew: I will create as I speak. Or I will create as has been spoken.

New Age: “manifesting” – What you think about and speak out loud will come to you.

But this is not new. The Jewish people have known this for centuries. They came up with the concept of Abra Kadabra: I will create as I speak.

Proverbs: Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it will eat the fruit thereof.

Jewish and Xan faith: God spoke and created all there is. We are created in God’s image. Our words have power.

Today we don’t pay much attention to the words we use.

What’s the big deal? They’re only words. 

Last few weeks I’ve talked about limiting beliefs.

Real power of limiting beliefs is the effect they have on our words.

What you believe will come out of your mouth. Listen to what you say: out loud, inner voice.

Out loud:

I’m not good at ________.

Nothing ever goes right for me.

I’m so far down I’ll never be rich.

Nobody cares what I think.

I’m afraid what might happen.

Inner voice:

I’m not good enough.

No one cares about me.

I’m like a magnet for disaster.

It doesn’t matter whether you believe words themselves have power in a metaphysical sense. There is good evidence they do. Jewish, Xan, New Age, occult believe they do.

But even if you take away the metaphysical and approach from purely psychological view – your words come from your mindset . . . and they reinforce your mindset.

Even from this perspective, your words create your reality. As I’ve said in a past Monday Morning Mindset – you don’t experience reality as it really is. You experience reality that you create from the stories you tell yourself about the world – stories made up of words and phrases . . . 

Abra Kadabra. I will create as I have spoken.

You may be saying: This is kinda interesting, but SO WHAT?

Good question: This is Monday Morning Mindset after all.

Takeaway: Your mindset determines the life you have. Ask yourself, “How’s it working for me so far?”

If life isn’t what you want it to be, the first step is to pay attention to the words coming out of your mouth.

Here’s the best part: You have complete control over what you say. 

For most of us, it doesn’t feel that way because we have a list of auto-respond phrases we use out of habit.

So here’s my challenge for this week: 

1. Think before you speak.
2. Imagine that the words you say will manifest into reality.
3. Decide if that’s the reality you want to live in this week.

Abra Kadabra: I will create as I have spoken.